In my conversation with olilim, I came up with 4 important criteria the Ideal Husband should have.

In the order in which I invented them, they are

1) Looks
2) Character
3) Intellect
4) Ambition

In the order of importance to me,

1) Intellect
2) Character
3) Ambition
4) Looks

That's all. I don't think it's too much to ask.